Thoughts on Honesty, Society, Duality

Who are you allowed to be in the society you live in?

Now, who do you want to be?
Do they match?

I spend a lot of time learning about humans.

I listen to others and then apply that in real-time to my life. This means I have changed a lot over the years!

I’ve heard coaches, mentors, and people I look up to talk about duality. Societal views, Religious views,
being an earthly human in a spiritual world etc.

This has allowed me to form my opinion, and this is what it is… I LOVE DUALITY.

Human beings are so much more than most of us present to the world.

We save little pockets of ourselves for our families, our partners, and our children.

Never presenting the whole, only pieces of ourselves.

If I am going to be teaching, and also just plain passionate about Women, Freedom, Health, and Growth.
I’d like to help people feel whole, to be able to be and love all of themselves! 🙂

Duality explains everything from the balance of the masculine and feminine to why mustard and
Ketchup works great together!

It is the difference between being ONE part of you, and all of YOU.

It means not changing to suit environments, jobs, people, places, and stereotypes; it is being your whole self.

You can be the funny, smart, silly, kind, amazing, sexual, emotional, and spiritual parts of yourself, sometimes.

When you bring society and religion into the mix, where can we fit in?

What are we allowed to be and with whom?
I always felt the need to look a certain way. I felt the need to behave and do things in a certain way.
As I’m sure many of you have felt this way too.

Everyone has certain stories they tell themselves to make the world around them make sense.

I am going to change how we live in the world, not just the stories people tell themselves.

We are all hiding the weird, dark, silly, sexual, ugly parts of ourselves.
If everyone is doing it, what is the big deal?
Because it is scary, it takes work, and trust to be vulnerable with our triggers.
It takes work to allow others to accept the shadows we have.
We are still working on accepting these shadows ourselves.
I believe we are capable of staying confident regardless of small-minded judgments.
When you see someone doing something that makes you cringe (in an “I’d never do that!” type of way)
Ask yourself why you don’t see yourself doing what they are doing?

Questions to ponder:

• Does knowledge have to come from someone wearing a suit?
• Does wearing a certain amount of clothing make you sexual?
• Does being a good mother mean wearing an apron, baking bread, doing laundry, and never leaving the
• home?
• Does having a family mean you or your family must look, act, or behave a certain way?
  Or live in a certain type of household?
• Does living in the “bad” part of town mean you can’t or aren’t a “good” person?!
• Does being silly mean you can’t also be smart?
• Does doing burlesque dancing on the weekend and working at the bank during the week mean anything about the person?
• Does working at the bank during the week mean anything about them?
• Should a person with a criminal past or addiction be made to feel guilty forever?
• Can that same person change, let alone make the earth a better place to live?
• Does going to church but also swearing/ drinking alcohol, etc., mean this person is not “really religious?”
• How do you look at people when they are different from what you thought they “should” be?
• Do one or even two dark parts of yourself cancel out the light?
• What if you could have a part-time job and work on the business you love too?
• Be at home with the kids and also play the sports you love?
• Live off the grid and shop online?
• Give a knowledgeable talk in a bikini?
• Do some of these questions make you feel shame, guilt, fear, or sadness?
• Does it bring back memories?
• Do you think they experience life in a certain way based on the judgments people make?
• How do you look at ALL the ways money can come into your life?
• Can you get creative with all the parts of yourself to create another income stream you love?
• What about Relationships?… Does your partner have to look or act a certain way for you to enjoy or accept them?
• As a Mother… Can you be someone who can step away to enjoy yourself?
• Do your kids see you being silly or laughing with friends?
• Working? Enjoying your passions?
• Do you wonder why people do the things they do?
• Would you be strong enough to hear the answers and continue?

Be the person who doesn’t judge them, so you won’t have to worry about people judging you.
A life where people can’t be themselves, including you. First, seek to understand.

If you’re looking for more ways to understand the law of duality.
Check out, https://www.thesoulmedic.com/2020/07/13/the-spiritual-law-of-duality/


We create issues that aren’t there sometimes by not living honestly in our duality.